The easiest way to be happy is to just want to be happy.  Thats it, no secrets about it just let it be.  People focus way to much on the negative and how it affects their life but they never focus on the positive.  If a person were to just want to be happy with life as it is and not change a thing then they too would be happy.

"If you want to be happy, be."  ~Leo Tolstoy

I've learned that love is not going to come to someone who is out looking for it.  Sounds odd but think about it.  When your outlooking for love your going on all these dates with people you picked.  Which sounds good right, I mean you picked the person how bad can it be?  Well it can turn out to be horrible.  Anyway usually when your about to give up you find it.  Guess what you were not looking for it then.  Love is not something you can make happen.  You just have to let it happen.   Some of the people closest to us love us in more ways then we know.  We just have to step back and examine the situation.

Who am I really?

The best news I've heard is that I have another little sister.  Although shes not so little... shes 18 years old only a year younger then me.  If you read me other blog post titled "Long and Lost but now found" it goes into further details.

You hear of people find long lost relatives after years.  Well how about long lost sisters or brothers.  after I was born... my dad stayed around for only one year and only one reason... he thought I was dying.  My parents were told that I had leukemia.. turns out I don't.  Anyway he left... and now I'm finding out that I have 6 half brothers and sisters.  6 is a lot of kids for one man to have isn't.  Turns out we all look similar and after blood test we all have the same daddy.  Bad news is we all also have the same health problems.  However daddy wants nothing to do with any of us.  It's a shame really. 

Is the string theory.  Which basically is attempting to provide a complete and consistent description of the fundamental structure of our universe.

I make decisions based on my gut feeling and relative data.  Basically I look at the facts, take into account my first instincts and then decide.  Whatever happens after that just happens.

The things I love doing the most are making people smile. Whether it's through jokes, conversation, listening, or whatever else it may be. I will do it to see them smile. People say laughter is the best medicine, and if that's true then smiling must also be healthy. I suppose that means that people are healthier when I leave then when I arrived. I'm not that self centered... I know that me just being their doesn't make people healthier. I’m just saying that most illnesses can progress greatly when people are depressed, and you cannot be that depressed if your smiling, laughing and having a good time, right? Maybe, just maybe a smile a day can keep the doctor away. I just think that if everyone went around and tried to make at least one person smile a day. Then maybe the whole world would be happier. Kind of like that pay it forward movie. Who knows... maybe someday that can happen. A truly happier world.

My ideal job would be doing something exciting. Something where your not sitting in some cubical or office filing paperwork. It has to be something where you’re out exploring the world or even your own backyard. Not literally your backyard, but your own city or country. I would be out living, living life to it’s fullest. Skydiving, surfing, snowboarding, deep sea diving, and much, much more. Not just taking life for granted, but out there enjoying it. Life is a gift, and we waste it sitting at home on the computer or watching television. If I could get paid for doing anything in life… it would be for living.

My purpose is to... help with wealth, knowledge, and joy.  Teach only what you know.  Heal emotionally those who need it.  Bring happiness to people.